HE wants to spend YOUR disability money on a car?


And yourself and he finds nothing wrong with this sentence?


I don't care if he's your father, payee, or accountant.

Its still your money...


Try to put aside the beef with your parents. Because whether they believe in BP or not is actually quite irrelevant in the greater scheme of things. All that matters is whether they are supportive or not, not which label they support.


I say this firstly from experience, and secondly, well actually also from experience. Because if you want to break free from a controlling abuser or possible abuser, best people to have in your corner is immediate family / parents.... These are people who (usually) naturally want to protect us, and since yours seem helpful in ways that are comfortable to them, stands to reason that they will help you get out from under hubby's thumb.


You don't have to do it alone, and you certainly don't have to stay with someone who thinks nothing of you.


Unless you're into such things and you choose to be treated like shyt.

Then just ignore my post.