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Originally Posted by Hopelesspoppy
I was constantly reminded of all of the kind and generous things he did for me. Every. Single. Time. Very occasionally, if I had an extraordinary amount of luck, I would get "I'm sorry you feel that I hurt you". Once or twice in over fifteen years I got a mumbled apology during the exit hug.
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Wow 15 years that is an eternity and then to not get
whatever apology or repair that you needed… must be painful.
I also got some of the "I'm sorry you feel…" stuff. She did come clean a little at the end and say a few things directly without equivocating and gaslighting, but it never felt completely genuine or unselfish, and so it hurt more than it helped.