I had sex with my husband or our fourth date. It sort of just happened. I felt head over heals in love with him the day I met him, but in retrospect I think I would have been better off to wait. My faith tells me that sex belongs ion a husband-wife relationship. My body and emotions had different ideas. Sex is never really just recreation though and you want to make sure that he is really the man you love, otherwise you cheapen and complicate your friendship