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Old Jan 16, 2016, 07:28 PM
Hopelesspoppy Hopelesspoppy is offline
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Originally Posted by lavendersage View Post
YES.

And it STINKS. And it boils down, 9 out of 10 times, that something about you threathens the other person or are jealous over...so it it THEIR problem....but YOU (me) end up paying for it.

And that is UNFAIR. I'll pay for my own mistakes, hang-ups, shortcomings, etc. WTH do I have to pay for YOUR's?

I am very sorry this happened to you.

Join a kickboxing class. Immensely emotionally liberating.
That is one fine idea. Thanks. And I agree with you- I am also the first to "own" my shortcomings, hang-ups, etc. Ironically, My boss and I were totally open about that...both closet introverts required to sublimate our proclivities for the cause.
Hugs from:
lavendersage