X-BabyG-X, trust is a hard thing when we felt like we have been betrayed. I hope this helps but i learned not to have any expectations of people and just accept them as they are and that allievates any anxiety that i place on unmet expectations. I hope that helps and i hope things work out better for you. There is nothing silly about this feeling and how to deal with or overcome it. Thank you so much for posting this because many of us deal with trust issues. (((hugs))) blessings