A therapist would help, yes. Talking with the family helped, too. My grandmother knew that I was unhappy. I couldn't bring myself around to say it.

Alright, I guess some more background information is needed.

You have to understand this is hard to do for me, normally guys like me are labelled scum.

I'm originally from Canada. In 2001, I got my US passport, graduated, moved to South Carolina and got married. All in the same year. That's where my wife and her family live. In fact, my wife and I live down the street from her parents. Literally. I moved way out of my comfort zone for her and I guess I feel that she has not moved out of hers. I don't want to stay here. That and we haven't made love for the past four months due to some sort of illness.

For some people this is superficial, but I guess what I want to know is why am I looking at other women now? Why am I not happy? Was marriage the right thing for me? Why am I starting to feel like it's not?

I'm sorry, this has really turned personal and I didn't mean it to be. Not on a public forum.

Okay, here's the other thing too, she has done nothing wrong. She doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, or sleep with other people. I get along great with her family. I have no issues with them. Maybe it's just me.