My problem really isn't *because* of women, but just generally it's hard to approach a woman when you've had 15 years of mental illness and all of the med side effects. Yes, social phobia is still 'there', but I often get this feeling when I meet someone new: I am afraid they will find out my past and think I am 'psycho' or whatever stereotype; In my late 30's, I've now had to move back home with my elderly folks not just to take care of them, but am also finishing up my university degree...still..the 'stigma' of a grown man living with his parents. I've been told I am not a bad-looking guy, but the meds put on the POUNDS!...wowwzee. I am trying this online dating thing, not having a lot of luck. So, ladies and gentlemen, I could really use your thoughts on all of this. Thanks...Jay