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Originally Posted by QuietMind
I had a T promise they wouldn't kick me out of therapy, then tell me she was going away for 4 to 6 months maternity leave.
I'd noticed the small belly too, but thought she just had lunch. I also thought she wouldn't get pregnant as this was her first job after graduating from her Masters and she was on a 3 year bond to the hospital.
But yeah, her husband and her were newly weds and they decided on having kids early.
It wasn't her pregnancy which hurt, but what hurt was me telling her "Don't promise me - you might decide you want to have children etc." and she said "No, I intend to keep working with you. I'm not intending on kicking you out of therapy."
I'm sorry you're hurting! I can imagine and relate a little bit.  |
T's shouldn't make promises. My T has never made a promise, but last months she sort of did. It was about her being late. She said she would promise to try to be on time for my sessions. I didn't like that. T's should be on time for their appointments. Also, I don't like promises. This was only about that she would try, but still.
I also didn't thought she would be pregnant this year. She would start with a new study, and she has only just started working at this agency. So I thought that if she would want another baby, then she would do that after her study.
I was very afraid that my T would send me away to another T. Still am. We've talked about that more than once this past year. She said she won't send me away unless she would think I needed help she can't offer me. It's not a promise or something.
But now she's going to send me away.
All those times in the past months that I've talked about being afraid to lose her, she just knew it was going to happen in a few months.
It just feels like... some kind of betrayal/lying.