actually she is on comfort care (also known as Hospice) however since I am not a nurse I dont know exactly what they are doing in the med department...i do know they have stuff to ease the pain....but it doesnt seem to ease her despair...i tell her she isnt alone and that we are here for her...but in her mind she wants her mommy because she doesnt feel good....however according to what i have heard her parents are past now....it seems nights really bother her....sometimes she cries out during the day but evening really scares her...i try to get her to smile and sometimes she does and she seems to really like her hair smoothed ....i have the day off tommrow and as much as i need it my heart kinda breaks because i dont want her to be alone....i dont know if everyone else is going to run to her cries....perhaps i have gotten to attached but i dont care....strip my license from me...never let me work in the med field again....but how can you not care for such helpless human in pain....thank you for your thoughts and support I really appreciate it and i know she does...