Psychopathy is about being wired differently – As has been said before, all psychopaths are narcissists but not all narcissists are psychopaths – meaning not all narcissists are necessarily wired that way.

Lumping all narcissists into one category still seems to me, in general, to be a mistake. But if being wired differently is the definition of NPD that the narcissists in this forum agree applies to them personally then that, of course, is understandably what this forum will be about.