I want to second what Fizzyo said... see if you can find another counselor, start fresh, tell the whole story. If not a counselor then find someone else that you trust that you can talk to.

Help is available and it is not a sign of weakness, it is a sign of strength to recognize that what's happening now isn't quite working and to seek help.

Yea don't let others affect you but only in the context of don't let them stop you from seeking the help you need. The counselor should not have dismissed how what others are saying and doing is making you feel. Either she didn't understand your problem or she is terribly uninformed.

Good luck and hope you can find some help. It is available.