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Originally Posted by marmaduke
Pfrog
To walk away is hard and scary, but the only thing to do (if at all possible)
To stay entrapped in a toxic family is to live with poison and then wonder why you don't get better.
So many folks seem to 'love' their abusers. Trauma bonding l suppose. I faking hate mine. The b###ards.
Well done for escaping.
Lavender l feel for you. You sound like a kind lovely person. You deserve good things. Is there any way you could leave this house?
You sound like the normal person in your family it's the others who ain't right!
They sound possibly NPD.
'Narcissisum. One of the few conditions where the patients are left alone and everyone else gets treated.'
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Thanks, Marmaduke. I do what I can. I try my hardest.
I've always been the "odd man out" in my family. They say every family ascribes "roles" to it's members. I've always been the scapegoat. The interloper.
I don't know whether my sibling has NPD. I do know that they rule this large family - everyone listens to anything that they have to say and buys it hook, line, and sinker. And that they are NEVER, EVER partly/wholly responsible for anything that ever occurs in their lives. They are ALWAYS "the victim". It is always, always, always, somebody else's fault other than themselves.

