tbird20tv said: I live with a lot of regret. I completely understand! Mine destroyed my marriage. Now I am afraid to get into relationships and wonder if I will ever get remarried. I understand regret, but I also take second by second, minute by minute, hour by hour etc. I am learning how to forgive myself. Hang in there. You are not alone.

You are learning to forgive yourself. That is a great accomplishment! You need to know how elusive that ability is. I think I have only begun to tap into it this last year. I wanted you to know that. Sincere Congratulations on learning a great gift. We have GOT to be our own best friends. Forgiveness must be learned to go on to learn like, appreciation, respect, admiration, and eventually love of self.