You are right. I feel helpless. I felt better when I was away on holiday but I can't flee everything I've built up here.
I don't understand why he can affect my life so much. I honestly don't get it because I don't admire his lifestyle to say the least. He has great prof. qualities for sure but come on.
I met another guy and if he had been single I could have very well fallen for him so it's not like he's preventing me from living a romantic life.

All I know is that this hostility towards me is taking its toll and I don't want this anymore but what can I do? I haven't spoken to him in 2 months. No contact at all. And I've been avoiding him in most places. Yet some of his friends are acting as if I was waiting there for him. It's odd. I can only imagine that they act based on what he told them. But why does he still tell them that I'm after him when it's so obvious I'm not?

It's like he's interested in me but doesn't want to admit it. That would explain the anger. But I am not forcing him to be interested in me or to date other girls. Am I? :-/