Hello!
I was married for 20 years from which I have 4 beautiful kids. During this 20 years my kids mother verbally, emotionally and psychologically abused me. In addition cheated, lied and stole from me constantly. Now I am in a relation ship with a woman I love very much. She has brought happiness and feelings I thought were dead.

I have a problem now. I can't trust her even though she has never given me any motives. I see things that she does and reminds me of my ex. My mind and my thoughts race. She's a good woman who also has been hurt. When I see her playing with her cell or texting I get furious I shut completely down and in my head a flood of flashbacks race and I just...run for the hills. I can't talk or say anything. Even when she begs me to tell her what's wrong. I can't bring myself to say a word I'm so angry inside. She's a sweet girl, friendly, hardworking and we are very in love. But it makes me jealous when she talks to a coworker or any other male. We are both nurses so you can imagine. I love her and I don't want to loose her. I know she's not my ex, she's everything I asked God for in a woman.

What can I do?