Hi, I'm not sure if I can at all be helpful. As a hermit, though, if I had someone to love who loved me, I'd be delirious with happiness. Even if he lacked day to day skills. I'm definitely not perfect either. Finding out more and more about that with every passing hour lately. Anyway, I think it's possibly a trait with many men that they don't talk about their feelings. My one and only friend, for example, will talk about work, and sometimes a book or movie. But he rarely says how anything feels. Sorry I couldn't be of any help but that's my 2¢. I wish you the best of luck.