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Originally Posted by FunnyMadison
I am dating in other circles.
The 2 people telling me I am needy are his friend and his friend's girlfriend.
It's not my business but we have common friends and it's starting to be weird that the atmosphere is so frosty. I don't want to be part of his messy dating life but that doesn't mean I want war.
For info: I am the one who told him not to talk to me because I thought he was playing games but I also told him that I didn't hate him. So why the hostility now?
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I really don't understand. You told him not to talk to you and he doesn't, but you are now upset that he doesn't?
Those other people tell you not to he needy probably because it's noticeable or because he told them you are being needy.
What's so important about this man? Talk to other people. Now if no one wants to talk to you then it's a problem. But really unless it is your brother or son or husband or boyfriend , it can't be that important to get him to talk to you?
Do you have feelings for him? Is there more to the story?
I know you said it's obvious you aren't into him. But it isn't that obvious at all. From what you said on here it seems that you are into him. You've been asking his friends why isn't he talking to you and I bet they passed it on to him.
Nothing in his behavior indicates any interest in you. Men who are interested aren't afraid to admit it and don't date other women. But even if he was interested would you really date someone who dates other women?
Let him go
Just don't let this bother you. If seeing him disturbs you then take a break from this circle . It's not worth it. He isn't available.
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