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Old Jan 18, 2016, 04:13 PM
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Location: Michigan
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I know that some legal details are needed here and if I miss any it's because I simply don't know. But I'll do my best.

Back in 2009, I bought my condo with inheritance my mom left for me. Often it's been more of curse. I've never been able to hold down jobs for long periods due to my BP2 and anxiety issues. In and out of IP and phases of alcoholism. Never had money saved so when the house needed emergency repairs, I'd have to run to family for help. When I bought the house, my dad also put his name on the deed. I always thought he did this to avoid me losing my house from a financial rut or my MI or if God forbid, something did happen to me. Well fast forward. I had a period where I couldn't afford to pay property taxes so I procrastinated and ignored it like I usually do. Since then I've met my bf and he now lives with me and his kids are here 50% of the time. So now my dad thinks that my bf should be paying off my taxes even though I acquired the debt before I met him. We are in debt but I just started working again and we are getting on track of getting out of debt with payment plans ect. It's not easy. Last night I told my brother that my bf and I had plans to get married. He told my dad asap and my dad texted me back saying that he's going to sell the house and leave us homeless. How on earth could a parent do that to their own child? He pissed that my bf has kids and that they stay here in MY house and that I've made them a part of my life and now I want to *gasp* get married! He says that my bf should be paying my debts asap. Like we have all this money laying around. So now my dad is threatening to sell this house and keep the money that was mine to begin with and leave us in the cold. I told my dad I am going to find a way to get him off of the deed. He's a realtor so I knew he'd sneak his way into the deed. I just wasn't sure of his intentions. I'm not sure of the laws here in MI but he sure does so he has that advantage. My dad and I used to be close but whenever a man comes into my life, he gets mean. My brother says whenever I'm brought up, my dad just says "fu** her!" Ect. Yesterday my dad did mention that he would like my bf to give him a call once in awhile. So my bf just called him and my dad said he'll call him back later. Whatever.

I guess this post is more of a rant about mine and my dads relationship. What would you do if your parent did this to you? Why does my dad treat me this way?
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