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Originally Posted by B2008
Sounds like he isn't even trying to consider your feelings. I believe no matter how bad off you are you can always show that you are trying. I'm sorry's just turn into automatic responses and mean nothing. Maybe you need a break and he needs a wake up call.
No matter how small, a positive change deserves to be celebrated!
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Thanks. I have been forcing myself to be the "bigger person" and apologize for anything that I've been responsible for. I try to tell him I love him every day, etc. (obviously, that's difficult when he's hurt me so deeply.)
I realize I wrote that we were both employed, but we are both UNEMPLOYED. That limits my physical removal responses. We're in a foreign country so I can't go to a friends house for a couple days. I'm going to see if I can visit my husband's psychiatrist. Maybe he can give me some tools. Thanks for your kind words.