It is kind of waste of time and energy trying to figure out why others do what they do. You might never have the answer. We can only know why we do what we do.

I once had a man very actively pursuing me ( actually calling and texting every day and asking me on dates), I wasn't interested so it didn't go no where beyond few dates after which I decided I am not interested, but later I found out he had long term girlfriend the entire time. And he was actually very mad when I said I don't think we are good match. All while having a gf. "Nice"

People do weird things. Who knows and who cares why

If you aren't attracted to unavailable men then I would just stop thinking of him and try to move on. Life is too short to waste it on this guy

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