Her letter is a pathetic, obvious attempt to cover her butt. She doesnt even understand the concept of privacy. If she truly believes what she is saying, she is dumb beyond description. If she is saying it to con the authorities, she is a bad person. I would wonder if she also has a problem with alcohol and seeing you was really a problem for her. That is the privacy she is trying to protect - you figuring out her secret. Her letter means NOTHING.