There's the rub for me, unless I'm openly being vengeful or something I really have no idea what I'm doing that's supposedly so very harmful to people. People have called me out on my behavior before as being "abusive" or otherwise "hurtful" and I'm left completely clueless not knowing what the hell I did that's oh so terrible, so of course I tell them they must be imagining things because really, what am I doing? People have reacted to me pretty strongly here and I still don't know what I did that was so terrible.