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Originally Posted by BuildABridge
With friends like those...
My opinion is that that guy is a holier-than-thou *******. His life must be just so perfect that he thinks he can afford being the abusive jerk that he is.
You already have enough problems, you don't need those condescending types around you to put you down.
You need people who can help you lift yourself up. If you can't find people that add positives to your life, then I think you're better off on your own.
Take care.
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He never said it was. He was getting me to be open and honest about myself telling me I need to stop living in the past. He asked me why did you pick a guy your ex with no ambition to date? Do you feel you are not worthy? He's very blunt so am I he told me how he was angry at his ex wife died going through a grievance. I don't feel worthy because I loved my ex so much I didn't want to be lonely.
I mean I'm about to pop even more because of my life still isn't getting better on its own I'm not living in a happy environment. If I could take a year off from work I would but I really can't. I'd love to take a mini vacation in another county if I could. I'm still broke I can't seem to start a new life being on my own. He's very positive he said I value myself that I wouldn't date someone with zero ambition.