I was completely (well nearly) with my husband. The exes are still on my Facebook. My husband doesn't care and now I don't either. It all played out and now we've moved on. I guess that's good. There is now closure.

Sure, it hurts my self esteem. I'm good enough to hit up for a fling, but not someone they'd want to love. I tell my husband the truth about how unhappy I am because of how he treats me and he so confidently ignores me because he knows I am going no where.