I was an uncontrollable, suicidal, drugs, sex, cutter, set my own rules at 15. Mom kicked me out at 16. Made some huge mistakes, was lost for about 10 years. Now at 34 I have a great husband and 4 kids. A great life other than dealing with bpd. You can't make her change all u can do is make sure she has access to the the support she needs. One day she will accept it.

No matter how small, a positive change deserves to be celebrated!