Hello all. Some of you know me already on here and know that I have been going through some things mentally where I am just not happy. I love my husband and do not want to lose him, but yesterday I made a decision that I need my space. I am looking for any guidance or insight on if I am making a mistake. Please help.


My husband is not growing. He is 36 years old and still does not know how to take care of bills, save money or be responsible. I have been telling him for the last 2 years that I need more out of this relationship. We have been together for 10 years, but I no longer wish to be married to a 20 year old immature young adult. We have conversed about my wishes for an adult relationship but its just not happening. He never and i mean NEVER tells me his thoughts, wishes, desires or anything related to his emotions. I sometimes feel like Im left in the dark. I am feeling that I need a Man. 2 years is to long for me to wait to see if he grows. Finding myself not willing to participate anymore in something where I feel stuck and cant move forward.


Any thoughts would be great.