I've thought about what I'd write to each of my kids and/or other family members. I thought it would be a good idea to make a public announcement (didn't plan how) about my primary abuser to the effect that he's not the sweet upright person he wants others to think he is. I have never come anywhere close to doing these things. There are times I think about it a lot, but never feel moved to do them. Just "if" that day comes...