Don't feel like a fool. You were understandably concerned.

If you live together and he is not home at night it is fishy.

On the other hand when my ex was away on business trips I often used that time to socialize with friends or relatives as I had no need to go home early. When your mom is gone he might not want to be home. I am not saying it's because you are there but my ex's adult daughter lived with us at the time and neither one of us wanted to be home if the other person wasn't there. We weren't cheating. Just had no interest to be home.

It is not unusual for couples not to rush home if their partner isn't there (unless there are young children home).

Not coming home at night at all is s but weird but who knows

Also I think there is maybe too much meddling in each other lives takes place and bad boundaries. I and my adult daughter are pretty close but she doesn't know if I ever have STD. How do you know?

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