With friends like those...

My opinion is that that guy is a holier-than-thou *******. His life must be just so perfect that he thinks he can afford being the abusive jerk that he is.

You already have enough problems, you don't need those condescending types around you to put you down.

You need people who can help you lift yourself up. If you can't find people that add positives to your life, then I think you're better off on your own.

Take care.