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Originally Posted by divine1966
It does sound confusing
. People with ASD are all different and hard to tell what this specific man is doing. There is no cookie cutter answer here.
I think the issue is that he isn't around and when he says he is busy or when he doesn't reply he might be on a date or actually with someone at the moment.
Unless you see him and observe him often you have no ways of knowing what's he up to. You don't how much of it is ASD and how much him being busy or disinterested in you or even not who he says he is.
I also want to say that you are the one that asks him to play and then he doesn't show up. Why isn't he asking you to play? I would have hard time with lack of balance. It appears that it is always you messaging him. What if you stopped and waited to see if he will message you?
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As far as I'm aware he works during the week, has his YouTube channel and goes out occasionally on the weekend. I don't really want to think about the fact that I could only be a side piece to him as he has told me that the females he's been out with have all been "easy" and the relationships all ended before 3 weeks, but one last longer (he didn't tell me how much longer though) as they all ended up doing things for other males. He's told me he doesn't want to be with that type of girl anymore.
He has asked about 5 (maybe less or more) times to Skype with me and once to play a game with me, he still doesn't show up then. The time he asked to game with me it was a couple of hours before I woke up, but I agreed and he still didn't show up, even though he was online. If I don't text him (generally because I'm busy or just don't want to talk), we don't even up texting for about a week/week and a half before he texts me. However when he disappeared on me last year, he didn't respond much and when I completed stopped texting him it was about 2 weeks afterwards he messaged me.