Stormyangels,
My T said much of the same thing. He said that he wasn't going anywhere and that I was always welcome to come back. I've been seeing him once per week for awhile, but feel like he thinks I should see him every other week (although he says no to this). It makes me feel like a big loser at times. I constantly ask him if I am annoying him and he always replies, "no". I guess I'll just have to believe him.
Sunrise,
Good question about transference. My transference is mostly wanting my T to be the father that I never had, but I did feel erotic transference for a little while when times were realy stressful. I notice that my attachment to my T waxes and wanes depending on the amount of anxiety I am experiencing.
Thanks!
Soliaree
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