I honestly think the only lesson comes out of it is do not go to counseling with in-laws. But I think that's what everyone said to you before you even started going

I would take it up with your husband. Why isn't he growing up and stops acting as mamas boy. Why did he force you and his mother to sit there and reenforce how much you dislike each other. It gave his mom more opportunity to show her power over two of you

If my parents acted like morons with my fiancée ( they do not but my dad is a very difficult pain in a butt maybe worse than your in laws and I wouldn't rule out that possibility) I wouldn't make him to go to counseling with them. That would be a torture to poor guy. I can't imagine. He'd have to sit and listen like he is s little boy in a principal's office.

Work on your marriage as two adults, you are married to each other not to his parents.

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