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For me it was not mutual attraction, or at best it was very lopsided on the side of me desiring and longing for her but having that not returned, other than in some general way. I still don't know and that confusion, in addition to the rejection, is part of the damage done. I got the emotional seduction and the feeling of being exploited PLUS a fatal rejection. Feels like game over.
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He pursued me in ways that bordered on ridiculous. For a (long) time it was cute and flattering....
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Originally Posted by BudFox
I am a bitter victim. Not gonna lie. Glad you are progressing though
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Don't get me wrong, I am a bitter victim as well. I made that comment because a lot of people, when they get into the "victim" phase tend to exaggerate the reality.
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Originally Posted by BudFox
So true about the seductive thing. Mine was feeding voraciously off this dynamic. I do want to take some action.
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Somebody really should write a book. Maybe if I had truly understood earlier what was happening I would have run like hell...or maybe not. But it's one of those things that are too difficult to put out there.