((((Jan))) please find a way to talk to him about this. Most people who are on limited time need and want to discuss dying, yet no one will dare speak to them about it. It's a great relief to help, and there's no reason not to, now. No time like the present.

I'm sorry you are going to lose him. This is sad. It's one of the things about getting older that has a negative implication.

TC of yourself. Prayers for you and him.