Some issues might always be there, but when you are aware of them then you can grow and be happy. Some things are just how they are ( if one has OCD or GAD and decides to wait until they are cured then they'll wait their whole life).

Some things need to be fixed. I personally needed to become aware of why I attract same type of men my whole life and why I end up with them despite the fact that they aren't right people for me and how to recognize the signs and red flags.

That had to be worked on prior to looking for the right person otherwise I would never break the cycle. I kind of knew what it is but it wasn't very clear to me. I needed somebody to help me so I went to therapy.

Relationship could certainly be a place to grow. At the same time we kind of attract people at our own level. Like if we aren't emotionally well we usually attract people who are just the same. It doesn't mean we have to be perfect, of course not.

I think just awareness of what needs to be tweaked and willingness to be better is a good start

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