"Whatever happens here will be the answer."

The answer to what?
The label you're trying to find for yourself? Can you just go without a label for awhile & just.....explore?
Do you have to have every answer right now?
Are you sure you wanto limit yourself like that?

How do you know things, feelings, emotions won't change in 5-8 or 14 yrs? Can you just say you're experimenting right now & seeing what you're open to.
Relax.
Enjoy. Life isn't a sprint, it's a marathon.