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Originally Posted by MikeNessMonster
I guess i should just focus on saving money for myself to go, and once i have at least some funds tell him my plan so its at least solidified in his mind. If he doesnt take it seriously... well then i guess thats my answer. I would never want him to move for me if he didnt want to go. I would understand if he wanted to stay for his son (he has as much custody as he can, its not as though he is neglecting him). But i cant betray myself.by staying in a place im not to be anymore waiting for his kid to grow up all the while im losing my 20's feeling unfulfilled.
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That's a very wise decision! To what yagr said above - I think that describes your situation.
If he chooses to stay at a low paid job that makes him feel miserable - there is not much you can do about it. I would say he should apply for other jobs without quitting his current job, but I guess you already had this conversation...