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Originally Posted by AlwaysChanging2
Okay, we have more than one other that swears that they are the host and tries forcing themselves in as numero uno by taking over and not letting go. These others are well rounded with much life experiences. A few even resorts to bully techniques that are ogerish in nature (the guys). The one dimensional others don't care because they are just fragments...and most of them know it or aren't aware.
I know by experience that the feel for others eventually fade away to the point that it all seems surreal after awhile, then you wake up gone or triggered out.
We basically powwow in the conscience, but whoever is presenting has the louder voice and final say which causes problems. We seldom confer out of bounds.
Anyone else have similar issues with their others? And have a good idea in handling such?
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sorry but my system was one where none of the alters were host. they took control according to what their jobs, reasons for being created were. your past posts reflect that you too have a system where your alters are trigger related and that they take over according to what their purposes, jobs, reasons for being created are. maybe instead of fighting each other you can go back to what has worked in the past...each alter taking control based on what their jobs, purposes, reasons for being created are. by doing this maybe the who is host problem will just naturally work itself out...no one necessarily has to be the one in charge, the one who is in control of the body 100%of the time. I know many people who do not have an alter who is host.