It sounds like in that case your T acted on his feelings (which might have had to do with countertransferance) in a very inappropriate way. WR's therapist was appropriate in recognizing the feelings and figuring out where they were coming from and how those feelings related to WR. In fact, she helped WR to figure it out and to understand how the same thing happens in other relationships, including her relationship with herself. SSR, your therapist acted out his feelings for his own gratification. I'm sorry that happened to you.