I am usually very quick to throw away my anger. I never hold onto the coal long enough to get hurt myself. Either I realize that the anger wasnt important anyway & let go of it, or I strike back so quick & it's all over anyway. I learned a long time ago that I couldn't hold anger in without getting sick......so I am a very quick fuse sometimes....but that is usually only when I have been pushed too far & have let go so often that can't throw it away anymore....that is when I blow.

When I blow, old Faithful looks like a tiny little spirt. People who know me usually know that I brush off a lot, but don't cross the line. I think we need to be respected & not treated so that we end up angry. If we are treated with respect, it seems that there is not much need for anger.

Just my point of view,
Debbie