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Old Jan 23, 2016, 02:34 AM
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Click the delete button and move on.

That's all you can do, that's all you SHOULD do.

I've never had fake friends, but I've had friends who used me and after being taken advantage of for so long I've finally put an end to it. This girl still calls me and leaves me voicemails of "I'm going through some stuff and I could use a friend". But she's never been there for me and even made it about her when I was the one seeking comfort.

You can't tell the world who she really is, only you know, and she may seem happy on the outside but I tell you what she is the most troubled and full of despair on the inside. And she will never ever change her ways and when people find out who she really is, everyone will leave her and she will be all alone in her made up world. And she is. She is truly alone in her made up world and yes, you can feel sorry for her, but you don't have to be her friend.

I've been friends with this girl I called my best friend for almost 12 years, and one day she stopped talking to me and ignored me until I asked her why she was upset with me, and she gave me the most BS reasons that made absolutely no sense. But then I realized that she was the most negative person I have ever met and I moved on, as hard as it was.

You don't have to be friends with someone just because you grew up with her and was your childhood friend. There is no obligation to keep being her friend. If being her friend antagonizes your mental health, she is someone to stay away from. You don't need a big to do about moving on...just stop talking to her. Stop skyping her. Stop texting her. If she calls, let it go to voicemail or block her on your phone and facebook. She is not a healthy friend to have. She is a very toxic friend and she will use you until there is nothing left.
Thanks for this!
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