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Old Jan 23, 2016, 06:58 AM
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Hard to pick just one thing, but the thing that sticks out in my mind the most is something my T said in the last session. We've been talking a lot recently about my fears of becoming too dependent and needy and that it would cause him to abandon me like my previous T. He has been so understanding and has reassured me countless times, but in the last session, at the end, he looked at me and simply said in his compassionate way "you're not too much." Those 4 words washed over me, and I finally didn't feel afraid of his possible abandonment anymore.
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Thanks for this!
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