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Old Jan 23, 2016, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted by scar12346 View Post
Well while we don't fight (yeah sure Wai, talk about not fighting -Scar) (Shut up you have no voice right now -Wai) (Yup.. we don't fight.. who would think that -Vlad) ...I'm not deleting this..
Let me start over.
While we don't fight AS MUCH, as we did BEFORE, we are 3 hosts. I don't know why people think that there should be just one host. If we had just one host it will be a war field here (not like it isn't -Scar) But before we got to all go to an agreement that we shall all host it was hard.
Me and Scar were in a constant fight of who was taking decisions the right way and who was wrong. We had a recorder of who was out the most and that one would be the host. It was impossible to do things because we all "knew the best for the body" in the end we have come to the conclusion that no body knows the best. Soo three hosts it is. -Wai
Oh because that helped so much Wai...
I think the best thing you all can do is work as a team. It will be hard in the beginning and most probably there will be fights. But assign everyone to something. Okay no.. wait, wrong. Don't assign no one cus that will make things worst I don't know how to explain it so I will just tell you what we do. Each one of us comes out at different time during the day of course by asking the one who is out (probably Scar) so the one who is usually out should be the one who the others trust the most. The others should also be able to stay near he/she so that they can follow along. They give their advices, requests and so on but not talk without permission. Then you should have the "bond", in our case that's me. The bond has the job to keep the hosts together. So if they fight the bond has the job to make them stop. How many bonds you have is based on your system. If you have more alters who want to be hosts then you should have more bonds. Of course the bond can go out and interact outside as well, they are just as much as a host. And for final you have the protector host. This one should be trusted with coming out whenever they think it's very urgent. That is Waidth. Sometimes it's not a full "out" it's just controlling legs or a hand or mouth or something.. So for instance, Scar cannot keep his balance and he slips and falls, therefore Waidth will make a connection with the hands and protect the body's head. Or if he cannot connect fast enough, he will absorb the pain. Next one that you can have is the "sponge" once again that is to Waidth or sometimes me. The sponge should be very very balanced and strong. This host will absorb the feelings that the main host doesn't want to feel, or the sponge feels like they will be a trigger. So when Scar was going out with this asshole (excuse the faulty language) Waidth absorbed all the bad feeling when the ***** decided to see her sex buddy which Scar only said that he was okay with because he was scared that she will leave him.. anyway, that is the role of the sponge. And so on. I think you get our point. Have another small system of just hosts. I think this helped us. There is the main system, the inner system and the outer one which are the hosts. But we do work in a team very well. -Vladimir.
Thanks yeah, we just have some strong personalities in here that feel that they are it, some borderline or total narcissus. When they present they are full of themselves and think that they are all that denying that they are just part of a system like everyone else to do a job. What can one do? Nothing. Just got to let them run their selves and not worry about the rest I guess.

I just would like everyone to get along and be nice to each other, mutual respect all around. I won't bring any of this up anymore.
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