I think it would be better for you to look for a new T. This current T doesn't sound that good. Terminating, then he decided to give you another chance, 2-pages with rules...

I can understand why it would be so hard to lose him. My current T is also a important person in my life at the moment, but mine haven't give me rules and such. I'm going to lose my T for at least 4 months. It's a different situtation than your in, but the thought of going to lose her hurts me so much. Even though after she's back I can probably see her again.

Taking some time off from therapy might be good. I don't know if you can go so long with a T, for me it won't work because I would definitely relapse. And you can look around for a new T. Maybe meet a few and maybe you'll meet someone you click with and who would be better for you than your current T.