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Originally Posted by bighands
A lot of guys I've talked to have these types of questions. It always seems to come down to the same things. Almost all guys love the D and watching it in action! Guys are visual beings. Maybe they could even have sex with another man, but it's still all about the D. On the other hand, not all guys can see themselves kissing another man or in a relationship with another man.
Personally, I think it's logical for any man to be excited by a beautiful penis during masturbation. It's a wonderful visual example of something we all love doing.
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Thanks . Helps knowing I not alone or that watching D doesn't mean I'm gay .... something I've tried to identify about male sexuality that excites me is the active nature of the man . i.e. aroused D and just the way men's sexual response is primitive in it's quest for release . I watched two guys kissing on the beach this past summer . ( nude beach ) And I thought - I should be at least surprised by this ...but I wasn't . I thought , gee that's very tender and sexual at the same time and I thought that I haven't felt that with anyone - man or woman , for such a long time , and the memory of it .... well it was great . I'd like to feel that again .
I've also thought , that's a beautiful penis - so I guess that's Ok . I never really explored my sexuality in depth ( had many partners ) . I'm not a kid anymore but I'm not altogether without feelings either .
I have a therapist and have been reluctant to share this with him as I think it might diminish his respect for me - and I think he is sort of bored with me at this point and wants me to leave .
Do you think I could go to one of these jack off clubs for a session and not leave feeling like I'm a depraved sinner ? That I could really enjoy it without feeling guilty ?
I think I missed having a close male relationship in adolescence and this is giving me a feeling of bonding in a way that I couldn't then .
Ok , thanks again .