I don't see anything wrong with that. I believe you have to be your loudest coach even if it is an alter. Narcissist I think are just self absorbed, if I didn't know any better I would think my ex-husband is a narcissist. I don't think there is anything wrong with thinking highly when this alter is out are influencing. I'm just a big proponent of positivity and the world and our system has a lot negativity so kudos to that. There are only a few instances where this can be negative, since you have a system it might be next to impossible to have that alter running your life.... Some people prove it then all you can say is give em credit they talk a good game...It might take a while but if this is your best bet make this one your host are your strongest alter ......I'm not saying this is all of what narcissist are.