Thanks y'all. I think I know how I should be dealing with it.......but I can't!

It's like you know that you are a butterfly, want to dress and appear as a butterfly- everything you say or do is butterfly, but the body looks like a stink bug.

I know I should just be happy being a stink bug, but I can't! I'm trapped in a stink bug!

Uggggh! Life's so unfair and cruel.