Now I have a feeling, when you are an open book to a person, and that person figure out the psychological pattern by which you function, but that person will remain silent cause he has something out of that what for you is a blind spot.

This is what my recent 'friend' is using out of me.

But when you drag this pattern from your childhood, your subconsciousness, and you can't get rid of guilt of saying no to any person (a parent), they can ask you any type of a question they already know the answer, or ask for help for things they can do alone...

and you'll jump and help them as a slave of this guilt.