Maybe she'll learn your methods? And appreciate them down the road. My stepdads mom was very particular. She taught me how to fold sheets properly. And that was my major task in her home when visiting. Ended up with no wrinkles, a neat square, the set together and placed in drawers. My stepmother taught me towels. Edges out, to easily grab or store without it looking like a mess. Had a boyfriend from high school who even commented on how well I washed silverware, as that was a peeve of his. Rare to find an iota of crumb, even my mom's dishes didn't pass...
Seems daunting and futile now, prayers down the road that you've helped shape her.
You gave her an experience, sounds lovely. Maybe you expect a certain tidiness but she was allowed to walk to the store.
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