I feel so sad when my boyfriend says,"It looks like it was a nice day/week." He said it earlier. I've been feeling guilty ever since.

When he says it it's like he's also saying, "I could have enjoyed this day, it's all your fault I couldn't."

Is it my fault because of how hurt he feels because of my past actions? It was his choice to stay home, it's his choice to continue being depressed, right? What can I say in those moments? I'm sorry? He may just follow that up with, "No you're not." And that's only going to hurt more.

Am I trying hard enough?